You may say, “I am not good at this particular task or I could improve in that area” well, we all have shortcomings no one is good at everything. However, we all have been graced with some type of gift and or talent. No one is expected to be good at everything; you just have to find your area you have been gifted in. What do you have a passion for? What do you enjoy doing whether you get paid for doing it or not? Whatever that may be that could possibly be your passion. I like helping others in whatever way I can. I love the idea that I may have played a small part in someone fulfilling their life dream or desire. Sometimes you may have to demonstrate self-confidence by conducting a self-assessment to determine your strengths and weaknesses.A self-assessment may be necessary to determine the areas you are strong in as well as identify your shortcomings. It will give you insight on where you should concentrate your time and energy. Additionally, you will learn more about your personality type:
Extravert and Introverted
Sensing and Intuitive
Thinking and Feeling
Judging and Perceiving
This information could be used as a good starting point to determine whether or not you are currently working in an area that is a match for your personality.
Know your strengths and weaknesses. Know what you are good at verses what you are not and work in your area of strength. Work on your area of weakness. Additionally, while you are working on these areas, if you have a partner or friend who is good in your weak area, allow them to assist you. Never put yourself down because you are not good at a certain task. Identify the activities you do well and place your thoughts and energy in those areas. Always build yourself up, pat yourself on the back and dwell on your positive aspects. Do not dwell on negative thoughts about yourself, always think on the things you do well. For example, some people are not “number people” math is their weakness. I have found some of those same individuals are the most creative people. They can create something out of nothing. They can take “another person’s trash and turn it into a treasure.”
In some cases rather than conducting a self-assessment, you can ask a friend. This is especially so if your confidence in your friend’s opinion is held in high regards.
William Arthur Ward an American scholar wrote, “A true fried knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths…” Sometimes all you have to do to discover your strengths and weaknesses is to ask a true friend.
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